Beautiful love: The man vows to take care of his disabled wife all her life, they have two children together (Video)
His name is amani.
He lives in Meeti in the democratic Republic of Congo.
He was born in lukananda and this is where he met his wife.
She is called Faraja Modeloir.
Before they got married, Amani had another wife who was completely fine and normal.
But why did he leave her to come and get married to Faraja?
His family called him crazy to dump a normal wife to come and get married to a disabled one.
Well, this is their story.
Amani was born in 1995, which means that today he is 27 years old.
Faradjah is 21 years old today.
In the beginning he was married.
How they met
He had a normal and beautiful wife, was not disabled at all he says that they always used to fight almost all the time that they spent together.
They hardly ever agreed on anything.
Amani and his wife lived next to farage’s family.
Somehow Amani was never comfortable when he was at his home.
He always used to come and spend most of their time with forager’s family so that he could get some peace of mind.
This is how they met.
It all started years ago.
He always used to come and help with some housework that needed manpower and spend most of the day with them.
She somehow felt like she could offer something in return so she could watch for him clothes in a way of saying thank you.
This was in 2015 when they met.
What they shared
They started having feelings for each other and between them, what they shared was more than just friendship back at home.
His wife was always in fights.
All that he ever knew was stress 24- 7.. later things changed.
He then fell for Faraja.
She was the one he loved and he ended up making her pregnant.
Later he decided to leave his first wife and go for the girl that he really loved and wanted to spend the rest of his life with.
When my family noticed that i had left my first wife for her, they were not at all happy.
They were shocked and they told me that i was crazy to even think of such a thing.
I told them that she was disabled.
She is the one i love and wanted to be with.
I try to make them understand that she is also human and she deserves to be loved.
That is when i decided to stick by her side forever.
Challenges they face
Says that there is a big difference between his first wife and the second.
The second wife is already satisfied with the little that Amani offers.
His first wife was never satisfied, no matter how much she was always given.
I also told my parents that they would help me with getting a bride, but they were not going to help me with the way of living with her and the challenges that we were going to keep facing as a family.
That is why i had to choose the one that i knew that we were going to live peacefully.
He says that obviously the biggest challenge that they ever face is poverty.
She cannot work because she is disabled and the type of job that he has does not give him enough money to take care of his family and give them all their necessities.
They live together now
But he says that this is the way that life goes.
They keep on working, hoping that tomorrow will be better than they are today due to poverty.
They live together now and they are not at all married.
They are poor and they say that they cannot afford to put up a wedding ceremony.
His parents and family refused to help him with any financial support for his wedding.
They say that he has to do it on his own, though they helped him when he was getting his first wife, and this time they do not want to because they are not happy with the wife that he is going to marry.
We asked him that if he gets the money required to afford a wedding, would his family be there to support him?
And he said that of course they would, because they cannot choose a bride for him.
They have to live with his decision.
After 2 years
Amani is sure that, though his wife is disabled, she is better than all the normal women in the world.
She says that they have now spent two years living together.
Amani was their neighbor from long ago and she always used to see him fighting with his first wife each and every day.
That is when they also fell in love.
After they had been in a relationship for a year.
She asked him to leave their parents house because she was not going to live here forever, and this is exactly what they did.
They had two children after they started living on their own.
Their first child is now three years old.
Though people kept laughing at her and discouraging her husband about his wife.
All that she had in mind was that he was going to abandon her someday, but this never at all happened and he stayed by her side and never left.
The first wife of Amani goes around saying a lot of bad things about Faraga.
She says that Farager bewitched her husband because there was no way that he could ever go for a disabled wife and dump a normal one.
She says that she never replies to people that say negative things about her today.
She does not have a job, but she says that if she gets capital, she would buy a sewing machine and start working, because this is what she very well knows how to do.
Amani’s parents have started accepting the fact that their son is in love with a disabled girl.
His siblings are not at all happy with it and they’re still fighting their relationship.
He says that he is not at all willing to leave her because his first wife was very stressful.
She says that she thanks God for having blessed her with such a husband and children.
She also thanks her husband for staying after what people kept on saying to discourage him.
