Today is my birthday but they said I won’t get any wishes because I don’t deserve it ️?? I’m so sad about that ??
On the day that should be filled with joy and celebration, a cloud of doubt hovers over the significance of my birthday. The anticipation of well-wishes, a customary expression of love on such occasions, is marred by the unsettling words that suggest I don’t deserve them. The weight of those words, like an unexpected anchor, threatens to pull down the spirit of my special day.
As the clock ticks, I find myself grappling with the profound question: do I truly not deserve the simple gesture of a birthday wish? The sentiment, though disheartening, sparks a journey of introspection, challenging the very essence of what it means to be deserving.
In a world where worthiness is often measured against various standards, the notion that I might not deserve birthday wishes raises fundamental questions about self-perception and societal expectations. The criteria for deserving love, acknowledgment, and celebration should not be dictated by external judgments, but rather by the innate value of being human.
Birthdays, at their core, are a celebration of life—an acknowledgment of the journey, the growth, and the resilience that mark our existence. To be told that one does not deserve the warmth of well-wishes is to deny the inherent beauty of the human experience, with all its imperfections, challenges, and triumphs.
In the face of such doubt, I choose to challenge the narrative that seeks to diminish my worth. The celebration of a birthday is not a transactional exchange; it is a gift freely given and received. The deservingness of love and wishes is not contingent on meeting some arbitrary standard but is an intrinsic part of the human connection we all share.
As I blow out the candles on my birthday cake, I choose to embrace the truth that every individual is worthy of love, celebration, and acknowledgment. The journey of life is a shared experience, and in that shared experience, we find the beauty of empathy, understanding, and compassion.
To those who may question my deservingness, I invite you to see beyond the surface and recognize the humanity that unites us all. On this birthday, I celebrate not only the passing of another year but also the resilience that comes from embracing one’s worthiness, despite the doubts that may linger. ???
